hey friend,
fomties™ is a little space i’m carving out to reflect, share, and grow—with whoever’s on the other side of this screen.
it’s not some weekly hustle. it’s not content for the sake of content. it’s just… honest thoughts from someone figuring out their twenties in real time. when something clicks, breaks, or just makes sense for a moment—that’s when i’ll write.
that said, i’ll try sending these out on saturdays at 9am. no pressure. just a way to reset before monday hits.
⚡️ quick rundown:
what is “fomties™”
why now all of a sudden?
what to expect in each edition
🌱 what is fomties™?
a stylised take on “figuring out my twenties.”
this is my current season—where joy feels nostalgic, decisions feel heavier, and clarity feels rare.
this space is where i try to make sense of it all.
🌀 why now?
i’ve always been documenting—from tiktok to instagram to my digital garden.
i’m done waiting for the “right moment” to start.
no more hiding behind drafts or overthinking every word.
this is me, finally showing up.
📝 what to expect in each issue
every edition will have a mix of personal stories, reflections, and actionable takeaways to help us all move forward. here’s what you can look forward to:
💬 a thought or quote of the week
a reflection, quote, or insight to spark introspection and meaningful conversations.
⚡️ quick rundown
a bite-sized summary of the week’s theme—no fluff, just the good stuff, in case you don’t have time to read the entire newsletter
⭐️ 3 truths i’m learning
personal lessons i’ve picked up that might resonate with you too.
🎯 actionable steps
realistic, practical tips to implement in your own life (or at least what i’ve tried)—because growth only happens when we take action.
🤔 one question for you
a thought-provoking question to help you reflect and explore your own journey.
🪴 growth notes
curated resources, tools, or discoveries i’ve found inspiring or created myself, from books to podcasts to digital products.
✍️ commnity spotlight
this is your space too. i’ll feature your thoughts, questions, or reflections in future editions.
💬 a quick personal note
if you’ve ever felt behind, unsure, or stuck… i’m with you.
i don’t have it figured out either. but i’m done pretending like i do.
this newsletter is part therapy, part time capsule, and part conversation.
if something hits, reply. let’s talk. if not, come back when it does.
this is the start of something small—but real.
see you next saturday.
x,
ryan